I've had three kids, ranging in size from 5 lbs 4 ounces to 9 lbs. I didn't need to do anything to "grab back" you might say, buuuuuuttttt I also feel like since I've hit my 50's I need to make sure I stay that way.
Yes, I am terrified of the day I have to wear Depends or any other protective gear. You're laughing, but when I had my 8 lb 5 oz baby, I had to get a catheter and I was traumatized cause no told me I might not be able to hold my urine. I pulled the cord to call the nurse and sat there sobbing because I had literally urinated all over myself while trying to get to the bathroom. Humiliated, in shock and apologizing for the mess I'd made, the nurse rubbed my shoulder and told explained to me why it happened, catheter, that it was normal and I'd be back to normal in a day or less. YES I AM TERRIFIED, to this day!
